


June 5th
Some of the
childrearing practices that I have observed are that the family is a huge part
of the family. It is hard to get to hospitals to even have babies and as soon
as they find out they are pregnant they start planning for them to go to
another hospital which are an hour or more away. They struggle with getting
prenatal care because of the remote location with not a lot of areas that offer
prenatal care. Since there is a lot of people are addicted to drugs and alcohol
you find grandparents and even great grandparents raising babies. The members
who have the most respect and authority are the elders, which are members that
are 62 and half. They also have members that are noticed as beloved, which are
members that love to teach and are very friendly and known by everyone. The
family structure is very different a lot of parents are not involved or only
see them some of the time. Grandparents raise a lot of children, many foster families,
and families that everyone is involved and lives together. It is known that the
Cherokee take care of there own, I have heard this many of times and through my
experiences thus far I have seen this multiple times. Every one is the support
system here but mainly the elders support the rest of the family. Through all
the hard times these children have been through they still seem happy, they go
to school, and they try to maintain healthy lives. I have seen people addicted
to drugs my whole life through family and watching what there kids have been I can
only imagine the endless cycle these families have been through. Every time we have
encountered Cherokee Indians they have been receptive and welling to teach us about
their culture. It is truly amazing what a person is capable of when you have
support. Resilience comes from support and willpower to overcome.
What a day full of learning and almost exhaustion! While we were all hitting a wall, I am so glad we could be a part of this evening to see the interaction first hand among generations in this church. You made a little friend so quickly! :)
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